Getting An ‘F’ Close On A First Date

Here’s a little advice on how to actually go about closing on a first date. It’s actually very straight forward and not exactly rocket science but many guy’s seem to struggle at this stage for some reason. Here’s my top tips for getting an ‘F’ Close on a first date.

Meet at Night, Near Your House

Keeping the sexual tension going during the daytime is difficult. All the excitement and tension has all but disappeared after an hour or two of boring conversation. Call her and arrange a meet somewhere local to your place. Make the meeting time after dinner in the evening.

Treat Her Like A Girlfriend

When you meet her, kiss her on the cheek, take her by the hand, put your arm around her or walk arm in arm. If you are comfortable in her company, she will be in yours. Attraction is assumed at this point. You’ve already built sexual tension, you’ve kissed and she’s joined you on this date.

Keep The Sexual Tension Going

Once at your chosen meeting place, sit close, within touching distance. Everything that comes out of your mouth should be aimed at building a connection. To keep the sexual tension going throw in
some playful teasing and sexual looks. Girls love a bit of teasing just as much as us guy’s do.

Getting Her Back To Your Place

Once the bar shuts suggest moving on to somewhere else. Keep the conversation going. This will distract her until you get to your house. If the bar doesn’t close till later make an excuse to leave
early. Give her a reason like the bar’s too crowded, noisy etc.

Final Objections

Most girl’s will object as soon as they realise that you have taken them to your house. Make up an excuse of why you have brought her back to your house. You wanted to show her something (pictures, pets). Make up a time restraint to put her at ease, “I cant stay up late as I’ve got to get to work early” or something similar. Doing this will help her justify to herself being in your place so early on. Believe me, it wouldn’t have got this far if she didn’t want to be with you.

Get Comfortable and Smoothly Seduce

Once in your house, get her comfortable. Give her a seat, get her a drink and sit a little distance from her. Give her a little space here, don’t just lunge at her!! Tone down the sexuality (unless she
is raring to go!!). Put some music on and give it some time. After a while, pay her a compliment and move in for the kiss. If she objects, back off a little and keep things going. Remember slow and
smooth is the key.

Follow these tips and you won’t go far wrong. The main thing is to just enjoy yourself. Have a little fun. Don’t take it too seriously. See it as a fun challenge! =)